what really should i do???

what should i do actually??? i also don't know, seems like a lot of friends around me facing some problem...but what can i do to them???yeah...i doubt that i can be the good listener but i know that im not a good adviser...what i can do is just listen to them, listen to their problems, become their special rubbish bin....

but recently, i meet a friend, he's the kind of thinking too much...i don't know what make him like this..everything he want to do he will think what will happening, for me this might be good and might be not good, the good way is he know how to prevent the bad thing happen and even he know there'll something like this in the end but he will find out the solution to solve it...But the bad way is, some time when he think too much, this will only less down his own confidence...i have to find the way to help help get back his confidence, but can i ??? do i deserve to do so?? will he accept my help??

Well actually, became the secretary of the youth group is not that easy, im the second big head of the youth group, and i try to make myself closer with all the committees...this is because i know all the committees have their own problem, and i understand that, if as the head do not concern and cares about the committees is very hard for the group to grow...so, i tell myself if there's anything that i can help them...i must...this is what a head should be, but i don't know when will this come to the end...i hope that this will never end...

just now suddenly received J's sms, he asking me did i telling his thing to M...i told him i juz tell M that he need more time spend on his study, and some time he's a bit stress...i don't how come J suddenly will send this sms to me, questioning me none stop...and for his followings sms it shows that he got blame on me i should not telling out his thing to M. (J is 1 of the committee, which is important ppl in the youth group) But, what i think is my situation and position is totally different with them...if they have any problems, or miscommunicate or even unsatisfied with what M suggested just anything then i should stand out and protect, fight and help them to communicate with M...BUT if they really got any problems, i still need to discuss with M find the way to help them solve the problem...

I willing to help in anytime...but i scare that one day i will just do nothing because of too disappointed with them...but before that i hope i can trained them become more mature in thinking or even handle any programme... Do i have the power to do so??? pray for me then....